A Bit of History

....How I introduced the cage to my wife in a non threatening way

I originally posted this in Septemeber last year in a well known forum that deals with orgasm and denial. This particular thread has now been read over 7000 times so it must have rung a chord somewhere. Please remember my wife is completly vanilla, probably more vanilla than YOUR wife!! As I have said before I had been fantisising about chastity devices for some time. I still do not understand the attraction, alas I decided to move it into reality. These days I am in two minds, I like wearing it at the same time I hate it (two things I hate are not being able to masterbate and being woken religiously at 3.30AM with a woody). A lot of time has past now, but as I have said previously, the advertised benifits to relationships I tend to believe are real, or have been at least for me. Crazy that wearing a plastic cage on your cock can do this I know...I think I understand the mechanics of this, but that can wait till another post...

This is how it started, and our relationship development has by no means finished. Reading back over how I behaved then, I made sooo many mistakes by expecting things to just change too quickly, they don't just change, it takes time, and a lot of it as well as patience. That said this first installment is about 5 pages long, so don't get too bored...hopefully I will leave u hanging...hehe


Sept 2005
How it began:

few weeks ago...I was lying in bed close to my wife, and I chuckled to myself knowing that I would elicit a what are you chuckling about .I said well it was just some spam I received on the email about this cage that stops spouses from hassling their wives for sex it was on Ebay

Her immediate response and you have to understand this is a very light hearted conversation. well that sounds like a really good idea!!! , so I said that s good I thought you might find it funny so I put a bid in .doubt I will win it though

That was a few weeks ago, I made a few jokes about it between then and now all the time plucking courage to tell her that I had won it .because honestly I was fearful she might like it too much or it might weird her out ..so decided to keep it light

Anyway last week while I was buggin her for sex I told her I had won it and to cut a long story short on Saturday night just gone I decided to show it to her. I had also made up some instructions for her to read .that supposedly came with the device I might post this later but its is a bit moot now since she did not read them in detail. (although she DID capture some of the detail!! More on that later)

This weekend has been very interesting/frightening I can tell you!!!

When I showed her, her face was one of stony interest, she kind of examined it .I made some fumbled comments about the really kinky instructions that came with it and that there were 5 FULL pages of them!! I made some comments that I can t believe how serious these instructions are, they are a bit scarey!!! then I said do you reckon I should try it on , remembering this is still pretty light hearted .after all it was just something I picked up on ebay!! Once I had the affirmative .off I went saying I had left all the bits down stairs .

I took my time putting it on I did not know what to expect .I can tell u my adrenaline gland was working over time I wanted to give her time to read the instructions.

Once a suitable time had passed I went upstairs to show her now this is priceless

I had some long runners on as I walked into the room she looked up at me (she was sitting on the floor) then she looked down at my crotch .no obvious bulge there so then I showed her ..she did not look shocked she simply examined it in curiosity I made some comment that I really can t get it off .she said I am sure you will find a way da da da..

Then I kid you not .she scooped up the keys .and put them between her legs and said well I guess you will just have to see how comfortable it is to sleep in won t you . That s all she said and I mean all GULP!! That s it!!........She turns back to the TV and acts as if nothing has transpired .starts talking about the TV show.

Well my head is in a spin .I am really locked in this thing, and my wife really has the key, I am not sure right now if she really has any concept or understand that I REALLY can t get out .nor do I think she has read the instructions that explain night time is a hellish place and it might take some getting used too ..and then it hit home, this fantasy that has been manifesting itself for a very long time has just become reality it has really happened with her holding the key ..biting off more than I can chew had a whole new meaning,

So the next few hours went by, casual conversation, then finally the light went out .and STILL no further talk about my entrapment so I began to massage her back .and everything else I dared to I massaged her for a LONG time I even got close in a spoon position so she feel the hard plastic under my silk pajamas. And I was firming up under the plastic...dammm I gave her a kiss goodnight and as she kissed me back she said a thank you , like she really meant it..and went to sleep leaving me lying there thinking WTF have I got myself into.

Of course I could not sleep that night .my mind was racing .would not could not sleep .eventually I did well until 3AM when the first of my wake up calls occurred .I had to be careful not to wake her my wife is a very light sleeper and has trouble sleeping period, to wake her is a real no no .so I just had to put up with it .eventually I went back to sleep and then 5.30..again .then again 6.30!! @ 6.30 I just decided to lie there awake ..and I waited for my wife to wake .

I greeted her with a kiss and had some light conversation, I asked her if she slept well and she had .I commented that I had had a few wake up calls as started to rub her back again, again in the spoon position then she turns over and looks at me looking shocked . You don t still have that THING on do you How could you Sleep with that on ummm duh!! well yeah .I told you I could not get out of it, and you took the key remember. I dare not wake you up anyway it was not that bad , with that .she opens her dresser draw and hands me the key!!

Hmmmm well I thought that did not go that well..I was kind of disappointed that all she had done with the key was put it in the dresser draw it seemed like all bets were off anyway. I lay there with the keys in my hand again ..rubbing her back in the spoon position I love rubbing her back .I love the feel of her skin, it never ever fails to arouse me, and it did then, but I still trapped and the hard plastic begins sticking out from my body and being in the spoon position while rubbing my wife back .the hard plastic is buried somewhere on/in her behind, the pressure feels nice .for me ..and as it turns out for her because she then says but this it IS kind of nice with that I say Ok well if you like it .tell you what I will wear it for as long as I can tolerate it, and I handed the keys back to her ..and man I am a sucker for punishment because she took them!! And she got a very nice long massage in the morning, and since I told her jokingly I was her newest neutered slave she got coffee and breakfast in bed!

I might have to finish this story later its longer than I thought stay tuned cuz I am only up to Sunday Morning and I am writing this on Monday morning.:

Chapter 2

Hi There, thanks for your comments, it has the hallmarks of reality because it IS real, blow by blow One thing I would like to clarify, is normally I am a dominant person, I am not sure how to describe our relationship, she is the firey one, but if she says something stupid or unreasonable she gets told to go take a hike, its one thing to play a submissive game, its quite another to be a doormat which I am not. Sexually again I am the dominant one, but she does make me try very hard, and because she is so hard to please, she really does come first in the bedroom, otherwise when sex happens, which is rare, it would be very boring, she is usually completely passive..I have even threatened to tie her up before although I have never done this to her, I still would like too, actually when I threatened her he reaction was not negative, rather if I am turned on you can do whatever u want but getting her turned on is the hard part, and its never come about now here is a thought a bit of bondage for her while I am in the CB Torture her with pleasure I say .hehe anyways so I guess in some respects I am already sex denied Mrs palmer is a poor substitute in-between. I still do not fully understand my attraction to this game it is like there are warring factions within my mind its delicious, yet scarey, at the same time I am worried about passing too much power to my wife, but if it ever comes to manipulation outside of the game then .there will be one broken CB .if its working for her and for me then let it continue its something different .and a bit of spice lets see how it pans out

Ok where was I:

After serving her breakfast I took a shower, when I came out she had left the bedroom. Later on in the morning we decided to take the kids out but the wife was going to take a bus with the kids and I was driving and going to meet them there. On their departure I have my wife a hug and a kiss goodbye then I got it again . Your not still wearing that THING are you well I stammered a bit admittedly and said well u took the key, you know I can t get out of it.. with that she left but she had not told me where it was .even though I knew where she had put it .I debated now if I should take it off, I was beginning to feel like I was weirding her out again.

In the end I decided to leave it on, and off I went to meet up with them. We spent the morning and early afternoon in the shops, much to my chagrin, in any case about 2PM we arrived home and had a late lunch .

During lunch I said to my wife, you know I still have it on you know, but I have to admit it is surprisingly comfortable, I hardly even know I am wearing it!! she replyed by telling me it is in the draw where it was last time .I then told a white lie . I looked in there but I didn t see it, besides I really did not want to go rummaging through your draws with that we left it .and the kids were keen to go out and play some soccer at this point I went upstairs and my wife was in the bedroom. I told her that I was planning to go out and play soccer and that it would be a good idea to take it off for obvious reasons.

So I was released that afternoon .and I was glad of it because the soccer match ended up being very strenuous because some kids and another father joined in .I took a few tumbles, I am not sure I would want the CB on when that happened!!.

Soo lets skip to the night time .and here it gets interesting again I had decided to try my luck tonight and ask for sex kind of strategically because she had let me out, I wanted her to respond in a certain way call it manipulative perhaps but I got more than I bargained for:

I waited patiently for the light to go out and started to rub her back, I had hinted earlier that I intended to try my luck ..as I shuffled over to her .she asked are you wearing that thing tonight as I answered in the negative I was close enough she could feel my firmness. She says well I might WANT you to be wearing it tonight , as soon as she said that, I felt the blood pump into my penis at an accelerated rate into pretty much a full blown hardon, I am sure she must have noticed that her words had turned me on but I was pretty intent on sex that night, she kept on about it though, that thing did not last long did it!! and I replied : I really could not get it on now I am too hard & so I begun a negotiation process. I told her she should not have let me out!! And she returned that You were playing a contact sport (which the instructions advise against), THEN she floored me. She stated as a matter factly that she had read the instructions and it said that it should be worn 24 hours per day 7 days a week, and that she want me to wear it we had a bit of a light argument then, I asked if she had read the rest of the instructions, and that I might be open to bribery she said she did not HAVE to read the rest, she had seen all she needed to see and that was that it should be worn 24/7!! ok now I started shiting bricks, well at the same time I was feeling dizzy firkin hell I have created monster At the time I was misunderstanding her, I was reading what she was saying as me wearing it forever but what she was saying was for 7 days straight I did not realize this till half way through the night I was in a state of panic..

Anyways, I ended up saying look I PROMISE I will put it on tomorrow and give u the keys if we can make love tonight .typical man with a raging hardon can only think with brain in penis .so .although she never accepted the proposal we did end up having sex, although she made me wear a condom, which she does ask me to do sometimes, I don t mind because it means she will sleep naked instead of putting her panties back on..plus the new non latex condoms are like wearing nothing anyways .they are excellent. In some respects it was a godsend because since I had spent a lot of time in the last 24 hours locked up I had not masturbated .and at one point my wife asked why I wasn t moving .I had to admit to her I am trying to control myself ..it ended up being a wonderful session she had hers in fact I dare say she was turned on very easily that night and mine was absolutely awesome.

Once things had calmed down my Mind started up .farking hell what have I made a promise to do I knew I could not go 7 days..not at this point anyways ..It took a long time for me to get to sleep

Morning came and as usual I woke well before she did .gawd she looked beautiful asleep .uncaged I took matters into my own hands again .it was nearly as powerful as the night before .as usual tho, on the way to O, the chastity fantasy is overpowering then once u blow, its like farking hell what am I THINKING

Eventually she awoke and I gave her a morning rub .and to cut a long story short I admitted to her that I was worried about the promise I had made the night before .I asked her if she really meant 7 days, she just smiled ..then she said see how it goes.........